I am sitting beside my husband's bed listening to him snore. The Foley bag is filling up nicely and I honestly never thought I'd be so glad to see someones urine! They are flushing fluid in him as fast as he is voiding it. The nurse said it is a bit of a challenge to keep up, but that's a good thing!
He is in so much pain. I tried to tell him he was going to be in a lot of pain, but he didn't believe me. It's probably just as well that he didn't....he might not have agreed to the surgery if he knew what was ahead of him!
The morphine is making him a bit psychotic...which I knew it would. He told his sisters and our daughter that he helped deliver a baby today. I'm sure he'll not remember this story in a day or two and I haven't got the heart to ask him to explain what he meant right now. I'd rather let him snore.
Every few minutes he'll moan and I hear the morphine pump beep. He'll complain that it's not enough, but the nurse just told me he is using quite a bit of it. He is probably using it more than he needs it.
I went around the corner and down the hall to visit Christina for a little bit. She looked great but is also in a lot of pain. We were told that this surgery is actually harder on the donor. She said she didn't know that, and said she doesn't feel like such a baby now for telling the nurse she hurt so much. She will probably get to go home tomorrow. Jack will be here until Friday afternoon or Saturday morning, depending on how he is doing.
Trying to tell Christina, "thank you," just doesn't seem like enough. I told her it's like trying to tell God "thank you" for His Son. The words seem so paltry. I hope if she reads this, she knows how much we love her and are forever in her debt. The words of the song by Bette Middler keep running in my head. She is our hero!
Another thought that keeps going through my head is the scripture, John 15:13;
Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.
And while Christina didn't actually lay down her life for Jack, she gave a part of herself to him. She is an incredible blessing.
So, until tomorrow....